Comments on: Releasing Struggle By Releasing Birth Energy http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138 An uplifting journey to recovery from bulimia - with tips and coaching for your own recovery. Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:39:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Palmtreechick http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138/comment-page-1#comment-958 Palmtreechick Tue, 05 Sep 2006 15:08:18 +0000 http://transcendbulimia.com/?p=138#comment-958 Hey Heather, thanks for the info. I will look more into it later. I'm exhausted, both emotionally and physically because I've been spending a lot of time at the hospital. The blind date stunk, by the way. I want to comment on your latest post too, but I need to have a few minutes of time to do that. Thanks again. Hey Heather,

thanks for the info. I will look more into it later. I’m exhausted, both emotionally and physically because I’ve been spending a lot of time at the hospital.

The blind date stunk, by the way. I want to comment on your latest post too, but I need to have a few minutes of time to do that.

Thanks again.

]]> By: Emily http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138/comment-page-1#comment-957 Emily Sun, 03 Sep 2006 20:27:00 +0000 http://transcendbulimia.com/?p=138#comment-957 Hi Heather, Thanks for the tips for clearing! Great insights! Interesting, too, about inducing babies. Our friends in NY just had their little baby girl, and she was induced. Maybe I should keep these EFT instructions somewhere tucked away in a corner where I'll find them again when she is old enough to give to her! Like a time capsule... I worry about her, because her mom made comments before her birth already that, if she has certain features, they would find a way to fix them. For instance, she said if she has her father's nose, she would pay for her daughter to have a nose job at age 18. She also said she hoped her daughter wouldn't have her father's dark hair and complexion. They sent pictures, and the little girl has lots of dark hair. I think she is a BEAUTIFUL baby! But I am worried about how her mother's preconceptions will affect her... with love, Emily Hi Heather,

Thanks for the tips for clearing! Great insights!

Interesting, too, about inducing babies. Our friends in NY just had their little baby girl, and she was induced. Maybe I should keep these EFT instructions somewhere tucked away in a corner where I’ll find them again when she is old enough to give to her! Like a time capsule…

I worry about her, because her mom made comments before her birth already that, if she has certain features, they would find a way to fix them. For instance, she said if she has her father’s nose, she would pay for her daughter to have a nose job at age 18. She also said she hoped her daughter wouldn’t have her father’s dark hair and complexion. They sent pictures, and the little girl has lots of dark hair. I think she is a BEAUTIFUL baby! But I am worried about how her mother’s preconceptions will affect her…

with love,
Emily

]]> By: Heather http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138/comment-page-1#comment-954 Heather Sun, 03 Sep 2006 18:24:15 +0000 http://transcendbulimia.com/?p=138#comment-954 Hi Emily, Thanks for sharing -- wow, you really got some good info from your mom! Cool. Here is what Carol says about breech birth clearing: Releasing: wrong direction / need to go in wrong direction to survive / wrong careers / backwards / feel wrong / somethin wrong with me / upste / I do things wrong / guilty / punishing myself / Afraid to come out / afraid to meet new people / not getting anywhere / not ready / staying too long / stuck / don't know what direction to go / unfocused / don't change me / terrified of being aligned / I cause pain / picking partners who want to be hurt / worried about hurting people / .... Reframes: I am safe to straighten myself out I am safe any which way I turn I am experiencing the right direction I am knowing where I am going It's safe to leave or safe to stay I am respected I am able to complete things easily I am experiencing that people love to meet me I am welcomed I am safe to align with others and I am supported to be free With love, Heather Hi Emily, Thanks for sharing — wow, you really got some good info from your mom! Cool. Here is what Carol says about breech birth clearing:

Releasing:
wrong direction / need to go in wrong direction to survive / wrong careers / backwards / feel wrong / somethin wrong with me / upste / I do things wrong / guilty / punishing myself / Afraid to come out / afraid to meet new people / not getting anywhere / not ready / staying too long / stuck / don’t know what direction to go / unfocused / don’t change me / terrified of being aligned / I cause pain / picking partners who want to be hurt / worried about hurting people / ….

Reframes:
I am safe to straighten myself out
I am safe any which way I turn
I am experiencing the right direction
I am knowing where I am going
It’s safe to leave or safe to stay
I am respected
I am able to complete things easily
I am experiencing that people love to meet me
I am welcomed
I am safe to align with others and I am supported to be free

With love,
Heather

]]> By: Heather http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138/comment-page-1#comment-953 Heather Sun, 03 Sep 2006 18:18:53 +0000 http://transcendbulimia.com/?p=138#comment-953 Hi PTC, I bet your grandma really appreciates your visits -- how lucky that you are close enough to visit her so often! I have some info from Carol Tuttle's Energy Healing 101 course about induced birth. She recommends using EFT to clear them. I can share a few of the statements for induced birth here (you can go to Carol's site or look on Dr. Mercola's site for EFT tapping instructions): Releasing....Trouble getting started / others have the start me / remorse / need to be induced into new things I want or need / holding back so others have to push me / being pushed / frustrated / come and get me / problems with time / feeling late / trapped / apathetic / others decide for me / problems with commitments / ... Some reframes are: I am free and same to choose I am sate to choose and to assert myself I am forgiving people for choosing for me I am free and safe to make up my own mind I am committed to my own joy and aliveness Even if you just use the reframes as positive affirmations, that might help as well. See what you think. I'm trying this too! With love, Heather PS...bad blind date, huh? Yikes! Hi PTC, I bet your grandma really appreciates your visits — how lucky that you are close enough to visit her so often! I have some info from Carol Tuttle’s Energy Healing 101 course about induced birth. She recommends using EFT to clear them. I can share a few of the statements for induced birth here (you can go to Carol’s site or look on Dr. Mercola’s site for EFT tapping instructions):

Releasing….Trouble getting started / others have the start me / remorse / need to be induced into new things I want or need / holding back so others have to push me / being pushed / frustrated / come and get me / problems with time / feeling late / trapped / apathetic / others decide for me / problems with commitments / …

Some reframes are:

I am free and same to choose
I am sate to choose and to assert myself
I am forgiving people for choosing for me
I am free and safe to make up my own mind
I am committed to my own joy and aliveness

Even if you just use the reframes as positive affirmations, that might help as well. See what you think. I’m trying this too!

With love,
Heather
PS…bad blind date, huh? Yikes!

]]> By: Emily http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138/comment-page-1#comment-939 Emily Thu, 31 Aug 2006 06:55:11 +0000 http://transcendbulimia.com/?p=138#comment-939 My mom said my birth was very quick and easy. Although I was a breech baby. She got to the hospital (in Singapore - where she was living at the time) around midnight, and I was born at 4 am. She said I slept great, too, as a baby. Only woke up once a night, around 5 am. I guess a lot of my issues, including the frequent urination, started after I had a life-threatening kidney infection at 18 months old. My mom said she was very happy with my birth and the doctors there. She had my older sister in Germany, and the hospital staff was giving her the hardest time about wanting to breast-feed. They thought that was barbaric. I think my younger brother's birth was smooth, too. He was born six years after my older sister (3 years after me), and, I think by then the hospital staff was a little more accomodating in Germany. My younger sister, who is 12 years younger than I, was breech like me. To my mom's dismay, the doctors delivering her insisted on doing a C-section. Her old doc would have probably been able to deliver her just fine, but the newer generation of OB/GYNs weren't trained to do breech births without a C-section, so they put her under the knife. So much for my mom's birth history... :) love, Em My mom said my birth was very quick and easy. Although I was a breech baby. She got to the hospital (in Singapore – where she was living at the time) around midnight, and I was born at 4 am. She said I slept great, too, as a baby. Only woke up once a night, around 5 am. I guess a lot of my issues, including the frequent urination, started after I had a life-threatening kidney infection at 18 months old.

My mom said she was very happy with my birth and the doctors there. She had my older sister in Germany, and the hospital staff was giving her the hardest time about wanting to breast-feed. They thought that was barbaric. I think my younger brother’s birth was smooth, too. He was born six years after my older sister (3 years after me), and, I think by then the hospital staff was a little more accomodating in Germany.
My younger sister, who is 12 years younger than I, was breech like me. To my mom’s dismay, the doctors delivering her insisted on doing a C-section. Her old doc would have probably been able to deliver her just fine, but the newer generation of OB/GYNs weren’t trained to do breech births without a C-section, so they put her under the knife.

So much for my mom’s birth history… :)

love,
Em

]]> By: Palmtreechick http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138/comment-page-1#comment-927 Palmtreechick Tue, 29 Aug 2006 21:31:33 +0000 http://transcendbulimia.com/?p=138#comment-927 I have one answer for ya, Heather. I had a chance to talk to my mom while we were in the hospital visiting my grandma. She said I was induced because my sister came out in just 90 miinutes after her first pain. They didn't want to take any chances with me so she was induced, or is it enduced?? lol. Oh well. that's the scoop. I have one answer for ya, Heather. I had a chance to talk to my mom while we were in the hospital visiting my grandma. She said I was induced because my sister came out in just 90 miinutes after her first pain. They didn’t want to take any chances with me so she was induced, or is it enduced?? lol. Oh well. that’s the scoop.

]]> By: Palmtreechick http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138/comment-page-1#comment-904 Palmtreechick Tue, 29 Aug 2006 00:11:23 +0000 http://transcendbulimia.com/?p=138#comment-904 Hey Heather, I just got home (7:45 PM) after being gone all day. Left my house at 7 AM. Ugh. Went on a bad blind date too. Oh well. So, I have not had a chance to ask my mom any questions yet. I will...sometime. THanks for the healing energy. My grandma is not doing well at all. I'm going to go visit her tomorrow. I want to make sure I see her in case something happens. I would feel horrible if I didn't see her, even though I don't want to see her in the state she's in. Thanks for the compliment. As for the perfectionism thing... I can see that! Hey Heather,
I just got home (7:45 PM) after being gone all day. Left my house at 7 AM. Ugh. Went on a bad blind date too. Oh well.
So, I have not had a chance to ask my mom any questions yet. I will…sometime.

THanks for the healing energy. My grandma is not doing well at all. I’m going to go visit her tomorrow. I want to make sure I see her in case something happens. I would feel horrible if I didn’t see her, even though I don’t want to see her in the state she’s in.

Thanks for the compliment. As for the perfectionism thing… I can see that!

]]> By: Heather http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138/comment-page-1#comment-903 Heather Tue, 29 Aug 2006 00:08:14 +0000 http://transcendbulimia.com/?p=138#comment-903 Hi Karen, I wonder what it would be like to visualize the discussion with your mother? Sort of have the conversation with her anyway, really tapping into what she might say. I've done that in meditation before and it can be pretty helpful. You know, through all that pain, this beautiful woman emerged -- you. I am just so amazed at the incredible strength you have. And the openness to move beyond what is past. You are proof of the human spirit and you deserve to know complete love and comfort. With love, Heather Hi Karen, I wonder what it would be like to visualize the discussion with your mother? Sort of have the conversation with her anyway, really tapping into what she might say. I’ve done that in meditation before and it can be pretty helpful.

You know, through all that pain, this beautiful woman emerged — you. I am just so amazed at the incredible strength you have. And the openness to move beyond what is past. You are proof of the human spirit and you deserve to know complete love and comfort.

With love,
Heather

]]> By: Heather http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138/comment-page-1#comment-902 Heather Tue, 29 Aug 2006 00:05:18 +0000 http://transcendbulimia.com/?p=138#comment-902 Hi PTC, I am sending healing energy for a speedy recovery for your grandma. Hang in there during these busy times -- I hope you are taking care of you also. Coaching sounds like fun -- I bet you're great at it. I can just see you with all that energy and spirit! Your situation with your sister sounds kinda like mine growing up. Although I always felt like I had to be the good one, because she was so bad. It's not like I realized I was doing it, it was just this subtle pressue of expectation hanging in the background. Maybe the beginning of perfectionism. With love, Heather Hi PTC, I am sending healing energy for a speedy recovery for your grandma. Hang in there during these busy times — I hope you are taking care of you also. Coaching sounds like fun — I bet you’re great at it. I can just see you with all that energy and spirit!

Your situation with your sister sounds kinda like mine growing up. Although I always felt like I had to be the good one, because she was so bad. It’s not like I realized I was doing it, it was just this subtle pressue of expectation hanging in the background. Maybe the beginning of perfectionism.

With love,
Heather

]]> By: karen http://transcendbulimia.com/archives/138/comment-page-1#comment-899 karen Mon, 28 Aug 2006 21:06:16 +0000 http://transcendbulimia.com/?p=138#comment-899 I wish my mother was around to ask her those questions I dont have a clue about my birth or much about my early life. MY family never did like to talk about feelings or anything relevant. They were alwasy so hard on us that myself my sister and my brother (now deceased) all ended up crazy in our own ways We all had addictions and body image problems but we never had a parent to talk to and we never talked to each other much until much later. There isi so much lost It is very sad Karen I wish my mother was around to ask her those questions
I dont have a clue about my birth or much about my early life. MY family never did like to talk about feelings or anything relevant. They were alwasy so hard on us that myself my sister and my brother (now deceased) all ended up crazy in our own ways We all had addictions and body image problems but we never had a parent to talk to and we never talked to each other much until much later.
There isi so much lost It is very sad
Karen

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