Well, I’ve been in Las Vegas for a couple of hours and so far, so good. What an amazing day I had!
In keeping with my theme of belief, I listened to and practiced the exercises in Esther and Jerry Hicks CD — Ask & It is Given Part II – The Processes.
If you haven’t heard of Esther and Jerry Hicks, some say that they were the originals in the concept of Law of Attraction. Abraham is a collective name for the spiritual entities that are channeled through Esther. Now whether you believe in channeling or not, the messages are clear, practical and inspiring.
You see, Abraham just wants us to feel good — since when we are feeling good, we are not only at our best, we are connected with who we truly are.
Think about it…how do you feel when you’re feeling good? Imagine a time when you last felt really good — what was that like? What were you thinking? What emotions did you have? How did you interact with others?

Most likely, you were more open, more at peace and comfortable with who you are.
In The Processes, Esther and Jerry Hicks (via Abraham) give us several excersizes to help us move our energy down a scale of 22 emotions. The idea is that it’s too difficult to jump from Depression (at #22) to Joy (at #1) — so instead, it might be easier just to pick a thought that feels better. So if you’re depressed, it might feel better to be angry.
If you try to jump to joy when you are depressed, you might end up feeling more depressed because it feels too difficult to think thoughts of joy from a depressed emotional state. Inch by inch, you focus on moving your energy down the scale to joy.
In project management and time management, we’d call that “chunking down.” You know how huge projects with a lot of action items can sometimes seem overwhelming? Well, if you get wrapped up in overwhelm, it’s possible you could end up doing nothing…and feeling bad. But if you chunk it down and focus on each individual task, you can create mini-goals that are much easier to tackle and achieve. Pretty soon, you’ve finished the project with no overwhelm!
So here are a few lessons from my trip from my little rural town of 1,400 people to Las Vegas….
Lessons From My Trip
- When You Express Gratitude for What is, You Can Drop the Stress
Beauty was everywhere today as I drove the 1.5 hours to the airport. The stress I felt yesterday — packing, getting my healthy food ready, finishing my articles and coaching work — all melted away.It was raining and misty, typically not my favorite driving weather. But I found myself marveling at the beauty of every shade of green that dotted the White Mountains. Little buds expressing themselves in the dawn of Spring. This is when I knew I loved my home. This is when I became grateful for my 1.5 hour trip to the airport.
It suddenly occurred to me as I wound my way through the mountains that all this pre-trip stress is pretty ridiculous.
Because somehow, it always gets done. And I always make my flight. And I remember all my stuff (usually). So what’s the purpose of the stress but to make me feel wound up and…bad? Somehow I had to speak this simple realization aloud, so I paused the CD and called Joel to tell him I was through with pre-trip stress. What this really means is that he’ll be “kind” enough to remind me if I fall into the trap next time.
- When You Feel Good, You Attract Great Experiences
So the plane was relatively uncrowded and I sat in an aisle seat with the middle seat empty. I spent the flight writing health articles, taking on the energy of the plane and flying through my words. In a short time, I was finished and ready to enjoy my weekend work-free.This is when I began talking to the woman next to me, who I noticed had an I Can Do It folder. So we struck up a nice conversation, found out we were both writers and made a great connection. She asked for my card and we have plans to get in touch. I used to fly A LOT when I was in my corporate job and I’d be so contracted and closed that I rarely wanted to talk to any strangers on a plane.
Now I find myself talking to strangers and having wonderful conversations. I have gotten clients during every conference I attend, with no effort. This was never my goal and I’m realizing it’s happening because I’m having fun, feeling open and genuinely interested in the people I’m meeting.
When I do what I love, I feel good — and going to these high energy events feels wonderful to me. When we feel good, we attract others.
- You CAN Laugh, Even If there are Bugs in Your Room
Okay, this one was a BIG mistake on the part of my hotel. I’m in a suite with a kitchen (so I can cook yummy Body Ecology meals and invite my friends over for dinner — Louise Hay may be coming tomorrow if she has time after her filming!).I’m also on the first floor.
The people seemed nice, everyone was helpful as I dragged my bags to my building. When I walked in, there was the flashing message light…hmmm, friends calling to solidify plans?
No, in fact, it was maintenance leaving a message for a departed guest saying this: “I’m calling because you had said you saw bugs in the room and wanted to know if you would like me to come and exterminate.”
NOT what I expected as a greeting.
I stopped for a moment and thought about whether I should unpack, should look for signs of bugs…and what KIND of bugs? Are we talking little bugs or roaches?
That’s when I started to laugh. I decided that I’m going to manifest a bug-free weekend, even if I am on the first floor of a suite in hot Las Vegas! And guess what? I haven’t even been tempted to look for a bug. Even when I saw the fly swatter in the closet (A fly swatter? That wasn’t listed in the amenities).
No, this is not a bad hotel…it’s actually a great hotel chain, which is why I’m kindly not mentioning its name.
- Las Vegas is NOT Lost Wages…Unless You Want it to Be
Southwest is a pretty funny airline. Lots of jokes to make everyone feel at ease and debunk the formal side of the older airlines. Instead of telling us to put our tray tables up and yaddah yaddah yaddah, our flight attendant sang us a rhyming ditty to the tune of “Deep in the Heart of Texas.” Cute.Then several times, she referred to Las Vegas as “Lost Wages.” Also cute. Except…our words are powerful. So I decided — in the spirit of creating beliefs that support me — that I was on my way to “Found Wages” instead. This immediately causes me to envision creating prosperity just from being here. How cool is that?
So while I’m sitting here, I’m totally grateful for my lessons today. I am grateful to be here.
Experiencing the feeling of gratitude is another way to raise your energy vibration and I can feel my heart opening just writing right now…and for that, I am grateful for you! Thank you for sharing your reading time with me.

by Miss Blue
19 May 2007 at 12:21
Heather, what a lovely funny post. I’m imagining how I would deal with even the slightest suggestion of “bugs” in my room….Not good. I’m terrified of bugs. Give me snakes, rats, and salamanders any day. No “bugs”. And I don’t care what kind.
I can so relate to the “why stress, it always gets done” awakening too. How many times have I created needless stress in my life -not to mention others lives too when they (hubbie) have to put up with my stress symptoms? LOL.
Lately, I’ve been very happy. And I truly believe that my happiness and gratitude, and my new found belief in myself have contributed to some of the most wonderful awakenings, meetings and opportunities I’ve had in my life. I can’t wait to see what else comes my way as I continue to cultivate my gratitude. Who knows, as impossible as it seems now, I may even get to a point where I CAN laugh in spite of “bugs” (eww) in my room. *shivers*.
Love, Miss Blue
by Miss Blue
19 May 2007 at 13:22
Hello Heather,
What a lovely, inspiring, funny post! I’m imagining what I would do if there was even the slightest suggestion of “bugs” in my room, and it’ aint pretty. And I don’t care what kind of bugs they are. Give me snakes, rats, and salamanders. Bugs are out of the question, out of my realm of acceptance of what IS..
I can so relate to the “everything works out in the end so why do I stress?” awakening. How many times have I stressed out, worried, made the lives of those around me (hubby) miserable, only to feel silly-not to mention apologetic- afterwards? Oh too many times to count, and I am tired of it. The next opportunity to stress will find me reflecting on whether or not I really want to do it anymore. In fact, come to think of it, I might currently have one such oppurtunity to stress about (wink wink), but I must be on too positive of a kick for it to have occurred to me. The fact that THIS just occurs to me is a good sign! Cuz I could have already been a stress-mess!
Which goes to show…Lately I’ve been very happy. And I truly believe that some of the most wonderful changes and encounters have been happening to me lately simply because of my attitude change. Happy things have been “finding” me, and I know this is a reflection of my new found gratitude and increasing belief in myself. I am attracting good things because of the positive energy I have been cultivating and nurturing. This positive energy is beginning to gain a life of its own to the point where it’s almost uncontrollable. Good things beget more good, right? I carry myself differently, and it seems so much easier to laugh. I am on a journey on which I cannot wait to find what tomorrow brings.
Who knows, maybe I will get to a point where I CAN find the ability to laugh in spite of “bugs” in my room. Anything is possible *shivers*. Eww.
Good luck with that
Love, Miss Blue.
by Emily Jolie
20 May 2007 at 15:15
Another wonderful post, Heather. It reminded me very much of a trip I took to France 3 years ago. It was a time in my life when I felt so ‘in synch,’ connected with myself and the universe. And I had plenty of meaningful and uplifting encounters during my trip.
(I actually just posted a poem on my blog today that I composed during this trip, and it’s a good reflection of how connected I felt at the time.)
I think there is something about travelling. I love it. Last December, during a visit to my in-laws in NY, I took the train down to Manhattan. I wrote a blog entry about the conversation I ended up having with a lady next to me on the train. My initial reaction to her sitting down next to me was resistance. She’s crowding my space. But then I decided to let down my guard and open up to her. Strike up a conversation. It was awkward finding a way to start. Usually, I start a conversation by seeking out eye contact with the other person, but when you are sitting side to side, that isn’t something you can do subtly, without blatantly staring the other person in the face. I finally wracked up my nerve and asked about the book she was reading. From there, we started a conversation that lasted the next hour and a half, until she got off the train a few stops before me. I was so glad I’d stepped out of my comfort zone and opened up to this lady! It was the perfect ending to a perfect day! (http://nourishyoursoul.blogspot.com/2006/12/very-special-day-in-manhattan.html)
Now I can’t wait for my next trip! Which is coming up soon!
I’m filled with anticipation of what encounters this one will bring!
This blog entry was a double-treat, as I not only got to read your inspiring words, Heather, and get a glimpse into your life, but also got to soak in some of Miss Blue’s beautiful energy in her comment! Thanks Miss Blue! I love your new-found attitude to life! It’s contagious!
with love to both of you,
Emily
by Heather
23 May 2007 at 11:22
Hi Em, I loved hearing about your trip to NY!! Funny how when we are feeling great, we attract wonderful experiences. And somehow, it seems easier to go out of our comfort zones, doesn’t it?
Well, I’ll be looking forward to your experience of your next trip too!
Love,
Heather
by Heather
23 May 2007 at 11:24
Hi Miss Blue, It’s so exciting to read about how you’ve been attracting happy experiences into your life! You DESERVE this wonder, beauty and happiness and it’s beautiful that you realize your power to create it.
Well, I found ONE bug…that was dead, so no problemo…maintenance came and got it for me. There’s a funny story that goes along with it, which I’ll tell you sometime.
Love,
Heather